Do You Remember Your Anniversaries?

Don’t tell me that you forgot already? Well, it so happens that it is 17 months today since me and my lovely wife met. That’s an anniversary by the way, but we celebrate it monthly. Tomorrow is our 2^nd month of marriage anniversary. We love anniversaries and so should you! Here’s why:

Special dates means more to celebrate and more to celebrate means more happiness. This is true in more ways than one. Not only do you get an excuse to do something special (like you need one), but you also get to do it with the one you love. I don’t know if it’s a cliché or not, but in all the movies and TV series I’ve seen it’s usually (always) the man who messes up and forget all about the important anniversary while the woman has been planning and looking forward to it for months. Listen guys, I am not judging, but is this really the case? If it is, why are you letting a perfect opportunity to get into the good books of your lovely girlfriend, fiancé or wife pass you by?

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Anger Projection

When you are angry at someone, have you ever thought if you are really angry at that person or angry because of something else? It’s called anger projection and it happens like this. Something you love, like an object of affection, is broken for some reason. Disappointed and hurt, you attack the person you love the most. It is more common than you think, and it happens in every relationship. It will be very damaging if it keeps happening, and neither of you understand the reason why.

Let me give you a few examples:

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