Laughing: The Recipe For A Happy Relationship
Posted by Tillnes on
September 29, 2009
Why do we laugh, or more importantly how do we laugh? We laugh when we are having fun, and fun, ladies and gentlemen is where we all want to be in a relationship. Just because you have 7 children and up to your neck in bills and stress doesn’t mean you can’t or shouldn’t have fun. The problem is that we can’t see past the seriousness of our own life. Yes life is a serious matter, but the trivialities of life have a tendency to keep you trapped inside an endless loop of seriousness.
Laughing has been a proven medicine for centuries and like the saying goes: You laugh, you live longer. I want to change it to: You laugh, you love longer. Me and my wife are 32 and 28, but sometimes we act like we are 15. We joke around and laugh with each other a lot and I wonder if we’re the only ones doing that. The answer is that we aren’t. I observe other people and their relationship and the ones that are going well are usually filled with laughter. The ones that are miserable look that way… miserable. Laugh a little! Live a little! How do you keep it light and funny in your relationship? Read the rest of this entry »
Your Dream Is My Dream, Let’s Make It Together
Posted by Tillnes on
September 2, 2009
But how about sharing dreams? have you ever thought about sharing dreams together too? you share your hopes, your goals, and in the same time you wan’t them to do the same thing to you. Having dreams is very important for me, i can see my future in every dream that i have, my goal, my purpose and it makes my life meaningful.
When i got married, it doesn’t mean that i stop my dreams. luckily i have a husband who always support me and believe in me. And i think i’m a greedy wife, I not only try to fulfill my dream, I also try to fulfill my husband dreams too. making his dreams become mine.
One of his biggest dreams is to become an author. he wants to see his book that he wrote in the book store, read by many people and can share inspiration to others through it. And yes he already wrote his draft in that time. the problem is he never move to the next step, to finish it and then publish the book. And i said to my self, “Hei, why not do some thing, why not make it come true? you can do it, don’t you wan to see your husband happy and proud when he finally get what he dreaming of?” Read the rest of this entry »
The Beautiful Imperfections That Make A Relationship Perfect
Posted by Tillnes on
April 17, 2009
Hi, How are you all today? I really hope that we can feel and share the love that we had to others…
This morning I woke up and turn on my computer, its so excited when I found the very beautiful video about relationship. its touching my heart, giving me a new lesson, a new perception about the meaning of imperfections that makes something perfect.
Its remind me, when how easily I am to get angry before because small things that my husband did. I’m typically of perfectionist woman, who wan everything looks perfect in my eyes, until I realize, my husband without his imperfection was not my husband, I love him all the way he is and that’s makes him perfect to me. Right now my husband live separately from me, the condition makes us has to separated thousands kilometers. When I was thinking, I surprised how I miss all his imperfection parts, it makes me laugh, its makes me remember him with love and joy.
Its so good to know that we can always find the positive side inside every kind of condition and situation if we wan. The matter is how you wan to see it? how you wan to treat it? and what will you choose, to see imperfection from people we love and make it as a problem or you wan to see all their imperfections to makes your relationship perfect?
hope after watch this video, we can see the beautiful imperfections that make a relationship perfect 
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Have a lovely day, thanks for all people who support us and always leave comments in this site, its really means to us, thank you ^_^
AND YES WE CALLED IT – THE INSPIRATIONAL VIDEO OF THE WEEK
“The Beautiful Imperfections That Make A Relationship Perfect”
“Funeral” is a new TV commerical launched by the Ministry of Community Development, Youth and Sports (MCYS) which looks at relationships in a different light, through a woman at her husband’s funeral. Ultimately, the TVC celebrates the beautiful imperfections that make a relationship perfect. This is fresh off MCYS latest Viewers’ Choice 2008 win for last year’s Family TVC which promotes the importance and value of family bonding.
17 Resolutions For Marriage Couple
Posted by Tillnes on
January 27, 2009
January is pass and February will come soon, its almost a month, we spend time in this 2009. What did you do in your day? are you planned to make a several project with your couple? or you wan to solve the problem that still bothering you from last year? or maybe you think to change all the routine and trying the new way to refresh relationship?
The beginning of year is a great momentum to make a change. This is the time of year that many people get those old familiar urges to make a resolution to makes the difference things in their lives, to do better, to be better, to love more, to get out of debt and to plan for the future.
What If You Fall In Love With Someone Else?
Posted by Tillnes on
November 24, 2008
Then one day, something hits you, something so awful you can’t even think straight. You fall in love with someone else. What do you do and how does this happen? We all believe in true love and one love, well at least us who are not cynical about life, but pray you are never in such a situation.
I’ve seen it happen many times to seemingly solid couples. They seem madly in love, and like a bomb, that love is is transferred to someone else. It does seem hard to believe and if I only read it in a blog post like this I would be very sceptical. Let’s just for the sake of argument say that it’s a possibility, ok?
TLG SERIES: The 12 Myths About Cheating
Posted by Tillnes on
October 14, 2008
This is a world premiere of The Love Geek’s first official blogging series. What does it mean? Well, it means that we will write about a subject so big, that we have created a series of 14 posts in total and this is the first one. So what will this series be about? It will expose the biggest myths about cheating and tell you the truth about the reality we live in, whether those myths are true or not. We will explore each subject and delve deeply into what possible causes there are for these myths to be alive and what you can do not to make the same mistakes as the ones created the myths have.
This is a little preview of what you can look forward to:
- Are we cheating because we are unhappy at home?
- Are men cheating more than women?
- Is cheating all about sex?
- Does cheating mean that you don’t love your partner?
- Is sex with an ex not considered cheating?
- Can you create a foolproof system so you are never cheated?
- Is a cheater always doomed to be a cheater?
- Should you not tell your partner when you have been cheating?
- Is it really cheating if no one finds out?
- Without sex, is it cheating?
- Is fantasizing about someone else considered cheating?
- Can an affair actually improve the relationship?
- Conclusion
These are all important questions we will answer and more so stay tuned for this exciting premiere and happy reading! TIP: If you want to make sure you don’t miss anything, you can always subscribe to our RSS feed.
Love Trouble From The Past
Posted by Tillnes on
October 14, 2008
Andrew G. Marshall, the author of “I love you, but I’m not IN love with you: Seven Steps to Saving Your Relationship” says in that book that 80% of what we argue about in our relationships stems from our childhood, our past and only 20% are related to the ongoing relationship. That is quite an interesting and eye opening fact, but it’s also something that isn’t so surprising when you think of it. Think of your life, everything you ever did and thought about. Simply the way you have become the person you are today, how does it all add up? More importantly, how can you let go of your past mistakes and that of your partner?
Do You Remember Your Anniversaries?
Posted by Tillnes on
October 7, 2008
Don’t tell me that you forgot already? Well, it so happens that it is 17 months today since me and my lovely wife met. That’s an anniversary by the way, but we celebrate it monthly. Tomorrow is our 2nd month of marriage anniversary. We love anniversaries and so should you! Here’s why:
Special dates means more to celebrate and more to celebrate means more happiness. This is true in more ways than one. Not only do you get an excuse to do something special (like you need one), but you also get to do it with the one you love. I don’t know if it’s a cliché or not, but in all the movies and TV series I’ve seen it’s usually (always) the man who messes up and forget all about the important anniversary while the woman has been planning and looking forward to it for months. Listen guys, I am not judging, but is this really the case? If it is, why are you letting a perfect opportunity to get into the good books of your lovely girlfriend, fiancé or wife pass you by?
Anger Projection
Posted by Tillnes on
October 2, 2008
Let me give you a few examples:
What Not To Do When We Argue?
Posted by Tillnes on
September 22, 2008
For most people, the way they argue when the problem comes is not always healthy. Besides yelling, bring up irrelevant things or start to say extreme, hurtful words with the purpose to hurt the other person.
And we know the result of all these things just builds up for the next fight.
Positive arguing, I think that what we all want to know how to do it, well its not easy like we think compare the reality that we have to face, but at least we wan to try the healthy argument to build the healthy relationship, Here are the 2 important things that we need to learn.
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Clear out any misunderstanding you and your partner might have
Tell what you think and what you feel. For example when you argue and your lover says: I think that you really selfish. When that happens, don’t try to answer it with “how about you, what is the good thing about you?” try to ask calmly “why do you feel like that?” is there something I did that make you feel like that?
