Will Love Grow In Time?

When you read that question above, what do you think? recently I am doing my survey to find out, is it true that love can grow in time? Even if you married someone that you did not love, will it be okay in the future because you think you can learn to love that man or woman in the end?

I found some cases with people who married without love, Now the marriage is almost 5 years old and some couples already had a child. They told me that they were not happy, some of them said they felt suffering with this situation and wish they had a second chance to go back in time that they decided to accept that marriage and said NO.

But why, what exactly happens? What makes them brave enough to gamble with their love and feelings? It is like “Ok, let’s try and see, maybe later I can love you, yeah who knows, at least i can learn to love you, but if its not, hmmm we will see what we can do later”

There are so many reasons that makes people feel trapped when they decide to get married even there’s no love in their hearts. Some things that i found out are: Read the rest of this entry »

Family Is A Great Choice

In life we get many so many choices it’s overwhelming. You get to choose what to eat for breakfast, what shoes to buy and what movie to watch. Family… did you choose to get a family? My family is just starting. Of course I have a mother and a father, but I am talking about a young family that recently started. You can’t chose your birth family, but you can chose the family you create yourself and that’s what I did.

When I was 20 years old, I never thought about having a family on my own. Even when I was 25 I didn’t feel that it was a necessary thing, it was something I could do without. I thought about one of my uncle who never had a family, never had a wife, never had children. I said to myself that he’s doing alright, he has a lot of money because he can spend it all on himself. It’s a selfish life, but it didn’t seem so bad. Read the rest of this entry »

The Beautiful Imperfections That Make A Relationship Perfect

Hi, How are you all today? I really hope that we can feel and share the love that we had to others…

This morning I woke up and turn on my computer, its so excited when I found the very beautiful video about relationship. its touching my heart, giving me a new lesson, a new perception about the meaning of imperfections that makes something perfect.

Its remind me, when how easily  I am to get angry before because small things that my husband did. I’m typically of perfectionist woman, who wan everything looks perfect in my eyes, until I realize, my husband without his imperfection was not my husband, I love him all the way he is and that’s makes him perfect to me. Right now my husband live separately from me, the condition makes us has to separated thousands kilometers. When I was thinking, I surprised how I miss all his imperfection parts, it makes me laugh, its makes me remember him with love and joy.

Its so good to know that we can always find the positive side inside every kind of condition and situation if we wan. The matter is how you wan to see it? how you wan to treat it? and what will you choose, to see imperfection from people we love and make it as a problem or you wan to see all their imperfections to makes your relationship perfect?

hope after watch this video, we can see the beautiful imperfections that make a relationship perfect .

Have a lovely day, thanks for all people who support us and always leave comments in this site, its really means to us, thank you ^_^

AND YES WE CALLED IT – THE INSPIRATIONAL VIDEO OF THE WEEK

“The Beautiful Imperfections That Make A Relationship Perfect”

“Funeral” is a new TV commerical launched by the Ministry of Community Development, Youth and Sports (MCYS) which looks at relationships in a different light, through a woman at her husband’s funeral. Ultimately, the TVC celebrates the beautiful imperfections that make a relationship perfect. This is fresh off MCYS latest Viewers’ Choice 2008 win for last year’s Family TVC which promotes the importance and value of family bonding.

Unconditional Love

Have you love someone unconditional? lets start from now…

5 years my marriage time with Ellen is a hardest time in my life. Everyday I feel we’re not match and connect to each other.

We fighting because the small things, because Ellen so slow open the gate for me in the time I came home, because he bought table corner in our family room without discussed it first with me which is for me its just spend money for useless thing.

Today, August 27 is Ellen birthday, we fought this morning because Ellen wake me up so late, I’m so upset and not said happy birthday to her until now. Time is 10 o’clock in the night, I clean my working table and going home. Its raining hard, even its almost midnight but street in this city Read the rest of this entry »

Do You Remember Your Anniversaries?

Don’t tell me that you forgot already? Well, it so happens that it is 17 months today since me and my lovely wife met. That’s an anniversary by the way, but we celebrate it monthly. Tomorrow is our 2^nd month of marriage anniversary. We love anniversaries and so should you! Here’s why:

Special dates means more to celebrate and more to celebrate means more happiness. This is true in more ways than one. Not only do you get an excuse to do something special (like you need one), but you also get to do it with the one you love. I don’t know if it’s a cliché or not, but in all the movies and TV series I’ve seen it’s usually (always) the man who messes up and forget all about the important anniversary while the woman has been planning and looking forward to it for months. Listen guys, I am not judging, but is this really the case? If it is, why are you letting a perfect opportunity to get into the good books of your lovely girlfriend, fiancé or wife pass you by?

Read the rest of this entry »