Does Cheating Mean That You Don’t Love Your Partner?

This is part 4 of the TLG Cheating Myths series. Previous parts: Part 1, Part 2, Part 3.

Check out the previous part in the series where I answered the myth if cheating is all about sex. Read about it here. In part 4, which is the one you are reading, I will talk about the myth that cheating means that you don’t love your partner. If you put this statement out there, I’m sure most of you will agree with this: If you love your partner, you will not cheat on him/her. It all sounds very logical to me which I am sure it does to you. Love is about caring for you partner, and above all, never hurt your partner intentionally, because that is love, not hate. I will draw the conclusion that cheating is not done by accident as you can’t accidentally have sex with someone. I also think most people who cheat will know that they will hurt their partner immensely if he or she finds out. It’s true that the cheaters do feel some kind of remorse after the deed is done, but they had every possibility to end it before it happened.

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TLG SERIES: The 12 Myths About Cheating

This is a world premiere of The Love Geek’s first official blogging series. What does it mean? Well, it means that we will write about a subject so big, that we have created a series of 14 posts in total and this is the first one. So what will this series be about? It will expose the biggest myths about cheating and tell you the truth about the reality we live in, whether those myths are true or not. We will explore each subject and delve deeply into what possible causes there are for these myths to be alive and what you can do not to make the same mistakes as the ones created the myths have.

This is a little preview of what you can look forward to:

1. Are we cheating because we are unhappy at home?
2. Are men cheating more than women?
3. Is cheating all about sex?
4. Does cheating mean that you don’t love your partner?
5. Is sex with an ex not considered cheating?
6. Can you create a foolproof system so you are never cheated?
7. Is a cheater always doomed to be a cheater?
8. Should you not tell your partner when you have been cheating?
9. Is it really cheating if no one finds out?
10. Without sex, is it cheating?
11. Is fantasizing about someone else considered cheating?
12. Can an affair actually improve the relationship?
13. Conclusion

These are all important questions we will answer and more so stay tuned for this exciting premiere and happy reading! TIP: If you want to make sure you don’t miss anything, you can always subscribe to our RSS feed.