Unconditional Love

Have you love someone unconditional? lets start from now…

5 years my marriage time with Ellen is a hardest time in my life. Everyday I feel we’re not match and connect to each other.

We fighting because the small things, because Ellen so slow open the gate for me in the time I came home, because he bought table corner in our family room without discussed it first with me which is for me its just spend money for useless thing.

Today, August 27 is Ellen birthday, we fought this morning because Ellen wake me up so late, I’m so upset and not said happy birthday to her until now. Time is 10 o’clock in the night, I clean my working table and going home. Its raining hard, even its almost midnight but street in this city Read the rest of this entry »

What If You Fall In Love With Someone Else?

Imagine yourself in this situation: You are in love with someone, even deeply so. It can be your wife or your husband, your lover, your girlfriend or your boyfriend.

Then one day, something hits you, something so awful you can’t even think straight. You fall in love with someone else. What do you do and how does this happen? We all believe in true love and one love, well at least us who are not cynical about life, but pray you are never in such a situation.

I’ve seen it happen many times to seemingly solid couples. They seem madly in love, and like a bomb, that love is is transferred to someone else. It does seem hard to believe and if I only read it in a blog post like this I would be very sceptical. Let’s just for the sake of argument say that it’s a possibility, ok?

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Story To Share (Marriage and Relationship)

CARRY ME BEFORE YOU DIVORCE ME

Original title : “Sebelum Kamu Menceraikanku, Gendonglah Aku” (Indonesian Version availabe below)

In my wedding day, i carry my wife. The wedding car stop in front of our one room flat. My best friends ask me to carry her when she out from the car, so i carry her enter our house. she look so shy and I’m the happiest groom in that time. That’s what happen in 10 years ago.

After that, days past so simple like a clear water. we have a son. I start a business and try to earn a lots of money. But When the wealth increase, the love plait between us become recede. She is a civil employee, and every morning, we go to work together and back to our home in the same time. Our marriage look so happy.

But the peaceful life suddenly change because something that i never imagine before. Dew comes to my life. I still remember that time, the sunny day, i stood on the balcony with dew on my arms, I’m Holding her so tight. My heart once again like absorb to the love that she gave to me. This is the apartment that i bought to her. Dew spoke to me, “you are the best typical man that attract so many woman”.

Her words suddenly remain me to my wife. When we just married, my wife said to me, “A man like you, once you got your success, you will become so attractive for the women”. Thinking bout this, i become unsure. I know i betrayed my wife, but i couldn’t  stop it. I release her hands and talked, “you have to go to buy some furniture, O.K? I need something to do at work.”

I can see, she look not happy because i promised will accompany her. In that time, divorce idea become so strong in my mind even its looks impossible. However I feel so hard to talk about this to my wife, no matter i explain, she will feel so much hurts. Honestly she a good wife. Every night she busy to prepare our dinner, i sit relax in front of television. Dinner will be ready soon, and we will watch TV together or I will turn on the computer. but imagine dew and her body is like amusement for me.

One day, I talk in a joke, “if we divorce, what will you do?”. She look at me in the seconds silently. In the fact she believe that divorce is a something that she never expected, so far from what she can imagine.

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