Unconditional Love

Have you love someone unconditional? lets start from now…

5 years my marriage time with Ellen is a hardest time in my life. Everyday I feel we’re not match and connect to each other.

We fighting because the small things, because Ellen so slow open the gate for me in the time I came home, because he bought table corner in our family room without discussed it first with me which is for me its just spend money for useless thing.

Today, August 27 is Ellen birthday, we fought this morning because Ellen wake me up so late, I’m so upset and not said happy birthday to her until now. Time is 10 o’clock in the night, I clean my working table and going home. Its raining hard, even its almost midnight but street in this city Read the rest of this entry »

Is Cheating All About Sex?

This is part 3 of the TLG Cheating Myths series. Previous parts: Part 1, Part 2.

Check out the previous part in the series where I answered the myth that men is cheating more than women. Read about it here. For this part we will discuss a myth that is still very much alive. Is cheating all about sex? Even faced with that question raises an interesting dilemma. Is it only cheating if sex is involved? There are a lot of opinions about that one and I’m sure you got yours. To define cheating seems an impossible task as it is very subjective and touchy matter. For example for some people, if you just look at another person it’s like emotional cheating. Some draw the line at hugs and kisses and some don’t see it as cheating unless there is actual sex, and that includes oral sex (sorry Bill!). But for this article we assume that sex has to be involved somehow at least sexual emotions and feelings because at some stage the “cheating” will evolve to that and most people think that it’s all about the sex, but is it really?

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Are Men Cheating More Than Women?

This is the Part 2 of the TLG Cheating Myths series. You can find Part 1 here.

In the last part I discussed whether cheating happens because we are unhappy at home, and the findings were rather interesting. Read about it here. In Part 2 we are discussing the ancient myth that men are cheating more than women. Is that really so, even in 2008? In the old days, it was definitely the case, and when I talk about the old days, I mean the 60s, 50s and even before that. It was a different time then, but does time change man? When you read the news today you hear all about some war going on somewhere which just shows we never learn. Does the myth still hold truth in 2008?

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