In life we get many so many choices it’s overwhelming. You get to choose what to eat for breakfast, what shoes to buy and what movie to watch. Family… did you choose to get a family? My family is just starting. Of course I have a mother and a father, but I am talking about a young family that recently started. You can’t chose your birth family, but you can chose the family you create yourself and that’s what I did.
When I was 20 years old, I never thought about having a family on my own. Even when I was 25 I didn’t feel that it was a necessary thing, it was something I could do without. I thought about one of my uncle who never had a family, never had a wife, never had children. I said to myself that he’s doing alright, he has a lot of money because he can spend it all on himself. It’s a selfish life, but it didn’t seem so bad. Click to continue reading »
Hi, How are you all today? I really hope that we can feel and share the love that we had to others…
This morning I woke up and turn on my computer, its so excited when I found the very beautiful video about relationship. its touching my heart, giving me a new lesson, a new perception about the meaning of imperfections that makes something perfect.
Its remind me, when how easily I am to get angry before because small things that my husband did. I’m typically of perfectionist woman, who wan everything looks perfect in my eyes, until I realize, my husband without his imperfection was not my husband, I love him all the way he is and that’s makes him perfect to me. Right now my husband live separately from me, the condition makes us has to separated thousands kilometers. When I was thinking, I surprised how I miss all his imperfection parts, it makes me laugh, its makes me remember him with love and joy.
Its so good to know that we can always find the positive side inside every kind of condition and situation if we wan. The matter is how you wan to see it? how you wan to treat it? and what will you choose, to see imperfection from people we love and make it as a problem or you wan to see all their imperfections to makes your relationship perfect?
hope after watch this video, we can see the beautiful imperfections that make a relationship perfect :).
Have a lovely day, thanks for all people who support us and always leave comments in this site, its really means to us, thank you ^_^
AND YES WE CALLED IT - THE INSPIRATIONAL VIDEO OF THE WEEK
“The Beautiful Imperfections That Make A Relationship Perfect”
“Funeral” is a new TV commerical launched by the Ministry of Community Development, Youth and Sports (MCYS) which looks at relationships in a different light, through a woman at her husband’s funeral. Ultimately, the TVC celebrates the beautiful imperfections that make a relationship perfect. This is fresh off MCYS latest Viewers’ Choice 2008 win for last year’s Family TVC which promotes the importance and value of family bonding.
Feel confused what to give for your special person in this special day? We try to help you with ten essential things that you can give for him or her. Price doesn’t matter because Valentine’s day is not about expensive gifts, but it’s about your ability to share your feelings about love especially for those who stand beside for our whole life. Indulge in these top 10 valentine essentials to show your deepest love and affection.
Are you confusing what you have to do to celebrate valentine’s day? why not try something you never did before? For this year lets make creative ideas, something unpredictable and surprise your love with wonderful treatment, make it special and personalize. Show your love and let him/her feel it. Believe me they will love it and just enjoy love and passion that you will get after that.
1. Flower With A Twist
Give your love a dozen of roses, with a twist! Give eleven red roses and a white rose in the middle with a note “In every bunch, there’s one who stands out and you are that one”.
2. Romantic Dinner & Piano
Hire a professional piano player to play music when you have a romantic dinner at home.
Where does the Valentine tradition comes from? The history of valentine still has a connection with Christian people in the ancient Rome, 3rd century. Roman people always celebrate huge party on February 15th called Lupercalia which had a purpose to serve a Roman God, Lupercus who protect people from bad wolves. One of the festival traditions is when the young man has a chance to say the name of the woman who they like to become his girlfriend.
For the Valentine’s Day itself, the legend tells about a Roman priest named Valentine who blessed the marriage of many younger soldiers even the king of Rome Claudius II not allowed that because he worried that the soldiers won’t leave their wife to fight for their country. The king executed Valentine because of what he did on February 14th, the night before Lupercalia festival.
January is pass and February will come soon, its almost a month, we spend time in this 2009. What did you do in your day? are you planned to make a several project with your couple? or you wan to solve the problem that still bothering you from last year? or maybe you think to change all the routine and trying the new way to refresh relationship?
The beginning of year is a great momentum to make a change. This is the time of year that many people get those old familiar urges to make a resolution to makes the difference things in their lives, to do better, to be better, to love more, to get out of debt and to plan for the future.
Have you love someone unconditional? lets start from now…
5 years my marriage time with Ellen is a hardest time in my life. Everyday I feel we’re not match and connect to each other.
We fighting because the small things, because Ellen so slow open the gate for me in the time I came home, because he bought table corner in our family room without discussed it first with me which is for me its just spend money for useless thing.
Today, August 27 is Ellen birthday, we fought this morning because Ellen wake me up so late, I’m so upset and not said happy birthday to her until now. Time is 10 o’clock in the night, I clean my working table and going home. Its raining hard, even its almost midnight but street in this city Click to continue reading »
Story About A Woman Who Try To Kill Her Mother In Law
A long time ago in China, a girl named Li-Li got married & went to live with her husband and mother in law. In a very short time, Li-Li found that she couldn’t get along with her mother in law at all. Their personalities were very different, and Li-Li was angered by many of her mother in law habits. In addition, she criticized Li-Li constantly.Days passed, and weeks passed. Li-Li and her mother-in-law never stopped arguing and fighting. But what made the situation even worse was that, according to ancient Chinese tradition, Li-Li had to bow to her mother-in-law and obey her every wish. All the anger and unhappiness in the house was causing Li-Li’s poor husband!.
Finally, Li-Li could not stand her mother-in-law’s bad temper and dictatorship any longer, and she decided to do something about it! Li-Li went to see her father’s good friend, Click to continue reading »
“In This life we cannot do great things. we can only do small things with great love” - Mother Theresa
Before i start to write i wan to say Happy New Year 2009, thanks for always visit and share with us with love and happiness.
New year is always become like a new achievement for me. everyday in 2008 I’m deal with my self to become better, so great when i look back and see how far i am walking forward. So in the beginning of 2009, i start with new plan and i called it Love And Emotional Control Plan.
Sometimes we plan a lot of things, about our works, our carrier, family, hobbies and etc, but we forget there is a side that need our attention, feeling and emotion. can we plan it? can we control what we have to do and what we should not do connect with our emotion?
Hi, How are you all today? I really hope that we can feel and share the love that we had to others…
Have you love someone unconditional? lets start from now…
